“That bastard threw me and my daughter out of the apartment. He has changed the locks and they will shut the door in our face. He cheated and robbed my family "

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She was the only one who met Bogdan at once and warned me about him many times. But I didn't want to listen to her. I felt that I had no right to interfere in my life and tell me what to do.

Her constantly repeated words: "Remember the baby!" Pissed me off the most. Because I did all this for Ola!

I wanted so much her father ...

I met Bogdan when I was working at the district health clinic registration. I would probably never have paid attention to him, if not for my friends who started whispering to each other that he was our councilor.

In fact, when I looked closely at him, I recognized the guy from the poster hanging on the front door of our clinic during the elections. The girls said our director was friends with him. And I just thought he looked better in the photo.

Because Bogdan was far from being handsome. He was eleven years older than me, he already had clearly defined bends and a beer belly. What captured me about him was such an aura of self-confidence. "Here's the guy who'll take care of everything!" - ran through my mind. But the romances were not in my mind then.

I was tired of everyday life, work, home, raising my daughter. Ola's father, my ex-husband, has already started a new family, leaving everything on my mind. He rarely spoke to his daughter, which I held against him, because Ola suffered a lot because of it. She missed her dad, she missed him.

Mainly because of her, I was not going to start any serious relationship, even though I noticed that Bogdan was visiting our clinic more and more often and was clearly flirting with me.

- You fell in the eye of the councilor! - my friends winked at me.

"Even so, I'm not interested ..." I replied.

But it is known that life writes various scenarios, and the easiest way to get to a mother's heart is through a child ...

One day I got a call from school that my little daughter had passed out at the academy.

- There was no nurse in the school - I heard from the headmistress. - Fortunately, councilor Bogdan Janicki was our guest and he gave Ola first aid.

Of course, I went right away for my baby. Although Ola was concerned that in the crowd of her peers in the room, she suddenly ran out of air and lost consciousness, but she told me with equal enthusiasm about the gentleman who first woke her up, and then brought her a bag of sweets from a nearby store to replenish the sugar shortage.

When the councilor returned to my clinic, I had no choice but to thank him. And he said he was counting on coffee in return. It was not proper for me to refuse. And when I met Bogdan, I thought it was even a pleasant experience.

Many people recognized him both in the cafe and in the street. He was bowed to him respectfully, and I felt as if some of that respect was coming to me as well. So I didn't protest when he took my arm, offering to drive me home.

And so I started seeing him. And now I wonder when this evil plan was created in his head? Did he calculate immediately what I would be of use to, or did he come to it gradually, slowly gaining my trust? But the worst part is that not only my ...

I just can't forgive him for involving my daughter in everything. Because he knew perfectly well that I do many things for her, because for me she is the most important in the world!

I watched him closely as he started befriending Ola. And she really liked him, maybe even loved him ... He easily took the place of her father in her heart, whom she had not really had in a long time.

It even got to the point that Bogdan did his homework with her! I remember one evening we wanted to go to the cinema and Ola was supposed to stay in the care of my neighbor. We were already standing in the doorway when she complained that she didn't understand a math problem. Then, without a word, Bogdan took off his coat and sat down at the desk with her. Without rushing and without glancing at her watch, he helped the little girl solve the problem, and only when beaming was checking the result at the end of the exercises, we went to the cinema. We had to change the movie because ours was long overdue, but I wasn't worried about it.

It was probably then that I first thought about Bogdan that he could become my life partner.

When he asked me to marry some time later, I was very happy. We started planning our future together. There was only one "but" to it all. We both had small communal flats. I have two small rooms, and Bogdan even a studio.

He claimed it had been enough for him so far, at least he didn't have to clean up too much. But now it could do with something bigger.

- I will apply for another place because of my growing family - said my beloved.

I applauded his intentions

I did not know how long the waiting would take, but I expressed my readiness to hand over my apartment.

- This way we will change two small ones into one bigger one. That should speed things up! Bogdan said.

And in fact, the beautiful place was found after four months! I remember even thinking to myself: “Such a councilman is lucky. Others have been waiting for an allocation for years, and he has been six-prast and has! ”. But I was happy about it, because I used it myself!

I felt that a new, different life was beginning for me. I have already seen myself with Ola in this beautiful four-room apartment. It was only necessary to renovate it.

"Only" has changed into quite a lot, because our new apartment needed a major renovation. Earlier, a multigenerational family lived in it, the neighbors even mentioned fifteen people!

The walls were crying out for putty and paint, and the floor in some places looked as if someone were trying to force it. The renovation team was asked to estimate the costs and sang 39,000 zlotys. And that's without tiles for the bathroom and kitchen, which had to be bought separately!

- Mother, how much! I groaned.

Bogdan also looked uneasy.

- Recently I bought a new car. I don't have that much money in my account, he honestly admitted.

„Ten drań wyrzucił mnie i córkę z mieszkania. Wymienił zamki i zamkną nam drzwi przed nosem. Oszukał i okradł moją rodzinę

Didn't it strike me as strange that there is no such thing as a big savings? Somehow I didn't think about it then ... I knew that she had two teenage sons from her first marriage, for whom she pays child support. Both boys received laptops and other electronic gadgets from their father, which must have cost a lot.

I know something about it, because Ola has been bothering me for a long time about a fashionable phone for, a trifle, several hundred zlotys! I strongly opposed this purchase, but I knew that Bogdan often has to give in, otherwise the boys might be offended at him and stop seeing him. And he really cared about them ...

So I thought about the situation and made a proposal:

- Honey, I have some money, I am owed by my grandparents. We can do a renovation for them.

I knew very well that this way I was behaving unfair towards my parents, because the 50,000 zlotys due to me were simply part of the house where they lived. Earlier we agreed that they would not pay me back for now, but would transfer their part of the house to Ola, who would inherit the rest from my grandparents in partnership with my niece.

In this way, both girls would take possession of the house after their great-grandmother, half and half. Well, now I changed my plans. I thought to myself that Ola needs a roof over her head here and now, and not only in fifteen years.

- Of course, dad and I will pay you the money, but we think you are doing wrong - I heard from my mother. - At least take all the bills so that you can prove one day that you were renovating this apartment! - she added.

- Mom, I do it with Bogdan! And he will soon be my husband! - I said.

I did not admit that for two months now, Bogdan has not been able to come with me to the registry office to submit the papers ... But what could I do about it, that he was so overworked?

My parents gave me money, postponing the renovation of their house for other times. My joy was not disturbed even by my sister who called to say that I was selfish.

- And you're telling me that? Having a house with my husband? I huffed. - Can you not understand what it means to want to live normally, to have a family, a husband and a child? Do you think only you have the right to do so?

- No, but I did not achieve my "prosperity" at someone else's expense - she snapped.

- I was entitled to this money! I yelled, upset.

The renovation of our apartment is in full swing. I had to take care of many things myself, because Bogdan was being driven. I even liked it. I had the feeling that I was creating our nest, where soon the three of us will be happy.

It was not without problems

I changed the team once, because the old one turned out to be slow and frivolous. So the renovation costs increased a bit, but we had the money for it, so it wasn't that I didn't sleep at night for that reason.

I was more worried about Bogdan, who suddenly became silent and cold. I explained it with stress and overwork. I didn't always want sex either, because I was so tired. I thought that when we finally moved into our renovated socket, the situation would normalize.

Ola chose a room right away. Excited, she planned where the cot would be, and where the desk and wardrobe would be. I counted the money that I had left from the renovation and decided that it was enough for new furniture for her.

The day we moved in was a real holiday. Ola was happy to run around the rooms while Bogdan and I were drinking wine. My sweetheart was a bit moody, but I thought he would get over it. After all, we made our dreams come true!

Meanwhile, things were getting worse between us. Sometimes I had the impression that Bogdan was even provoking quarrels. I had no idea why? But today I know. He was apparently on the way to a breakup by then.

The bomb went off the day he changed the locks! "I was in shock. I didn't know how to get this thing done. I couldn't even call the police to force Bogdan to let me into my apartment, because on what basis? They would ask for my ID, check the registered address ... And I still had a registration for my old apartment, which I had already given to the commune.

The next day I ran to the office. I demanded to register me at the premises occupied by Bogdan.

- This gentleman was assigned to him because he promised to marry me! I argued, but even to me it sounded idiotic.

But I was desperate

- I did a renovation in this place for almost 50 thousand zlotys! I shouted, but the officials remained unmoved.

- Mr. Janicki is a tenant and only he can register you - I heard.

- But he doesn't want to do this! I could barely hold back my tears.

They just spread their hands.

At least I decided to get my things back and then seek justice. I called Bogdan and this time he picked up. I scared the police if he didn't hand me over.

"You can come for them tonight," he said graciously, like a stranger.

Until I cried with regret.

Since then, I have cried many times with regret and helplessness. I picked up my things, but the renovation bills in my name are gone! So how do I claim my rights in court now? The head of the renovation team, whom I asked if he would testify who paid him, looked at me as if I was crazy.

- And because I know who? Kind of you, but was it your money? He replied.

In the commune I found out that since I voluntarily gave up the council flat, I was not entitled to another assignment. I mean, I can put myself on the waiting list, but ... the wait is gonna take me ten years. I argued that the councilor used me to get more premises.

- He wrote in the application that his family will grow! - I argued.

- Apparently so, but we do not go into who he wants to start this family with ...

- But you saw him with me! We used to come here together! - I was furious.

- We are not interested in the private life of clients. They can walk with whomever they want - was the cynical answer.

Now I am going to make a complaint to the housing allocation committee. And if that doesn't help, I'll go to the newspapers, TV, even to the hell! For justice for the harm done to me and my daughter! This man who, pretending to love us, misused us, must atone for it.

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