Neighbors' reactions to sex behind the wall. "That sounds like butchering a pig!"
Relationships and sex
February 10, 2022, 17:52Relationships and sex
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- BerenikaOlesińska
Sex is a natural need of partners. Can striving for close-ups in the presence of roommates living behind the wall, however, be considered as crossing the border of privacy? More indulgent neighbors accept the sounds of amorous frolics, and those less - react. How?
Sex With Roommates - Normal or Shame?
It is not for us to judge what, in common opinion, should be considered normal and what should be abusive. Each person has their own system of values, according to which they live. However, the most important thing is that the views we follow on a daily basis do not disturb the peace of people around us. Especially when it comes to intimate close-ups.
The regular clicking and creaking noise of the bed, moans and even screams coming from behind the wall may disturb some people's daily activities. Loud noises do not allow you to focus on the activities performed - study, work or even the desired rest. In addition, they have one more disadvantage - they violate the boundaries of privacy - both having sex with partners and neighbors who involuntarily become part of the act of love. Behind the wall, noises that get louder as you progress through intercourse can also be embarrassing. The matter becomes even more complicated when it concerns roommates, who are sometimes complete strangers to each other. So how do you get out of this situation - one side should give up close-ups, or the other should sacrifice themselves and put earplugs in? Opinions on this subject are very divided.
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- You can do it quietly, with sensitivity - suggests one of the Internet users. - There is nothing to be ashamed of. After all, we are adults, so everyone knows that we need it - comments another.
However, the above argumentation does not convince all social media users. Maja shared the apartment with her friends for a long time. A young woman notices the difference between knowing someone is having sex and being an unwanted witness to it.
- I lived with my friends for many years. We all had partners. I was living with a couple who got engaged. Neither of us has ever heard of another person having sex. Above all, we respected our privacy. In my opinion, it would not only be embarrassing for me, but also for people who would have to listen to it. We knew that we were adults, that we had intercourse with our partners, but we kept it to ourselves and no one had to experience it "with us". I cannot imagine a situation in which someone would hear me or I would hear someone else - he argues.
Discomfort may be felt not only by the listeners of specific sounds, but also by their authors. "I don't like having someone behind the wall, but not enough to give up sex." I turn a blind eye to it - we read the statement of another woman on the internet forum.
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video 2/5Some people take a greater distance from it. Sex is not a taboo subject for them, so they appreciate the directness of their roommates, and possible close-ups of friends become an ideal topic for jokes. - If I lived with someone, I would say: "Put on the headphones, or it will happen". My ex had a roommate and he made fun of him after all, "What's so briefly?" I have a neighbor myself and I can hear his conquests - explains Aleksandra.
The girl describes the various stages of the relationship with her partners in a funny way. Her conclusions are based mainly on the sounds coming from behind the wall. - At first I hear moans almost every day, then less and less, then they alternate with loud quarrels, then only quarrels, and finally silence and loud watching matches of Legia from the 90s. And so on to the next girl. I've been through the wall with him three times already. I like him, a predictable boy - Ola jokes.
Neighbors' Reactions to the Sounds of Sex
However, not all neighbors have such a relaxed approach to disturbing noises. They react in a decisive way. Sometimes they decide to confront them directly and knock on the door of frivolous tenants when the bed has not yet cooled down. Well, they even finish off at the peak of the action. Do such methods work? If lovers feel ashamed and understand that they are the source of unpleasant noises for some, they will surely find a way to prevent their sex life from suffering and at the same time making it unpleasant for others.
However, if they perceive any attention as a reason to be proud and proof of the great quality of intimate close-ups, then a problem may arise. A neighbor who has the courage to calm the cheerful company must reckon with the fact that he will not be a favorite of the reprimanded couple.
To avoid confrontation, many people choose a solution that guarantees anonymity, i.e. writing a short message and posting it in the stairwell or throwing it in front of the door. According to the NaTemat.pl portal, an inhabitant of one of the blocks of flats in the 1000th anniversary estate in Rzeszów decided to take such a step:
"I kindly ask my neighbors who have a richly developed erotic life: 1. Not every resident wants to participate in the ceremony of your intercourse, so I am asking for a little more discretion when performing it. 2. The block is not an opera where you can freely go to high 'C' and expect applause for a successful orgasm! 3. This is a steady number that has slowly gotten bored and embarrassing, as is the form and content of this request. "
Another example is given by Express Ilustrowany: "All the inhabitants of the cage are heartily fed up with your moans, screams, squeaks and other sounds during intercourse. Your murderous noises at any time of the day (especially yours!) Are unbearable. You can have sex drive at any age, but what's going on with you sounds like slaughtering a pig! Shame on you! "
The members of the housing community in one of the buildings in Warsaw also decided to display the announcement. - In my mother's apartment you can sometimes hear your neighbors. It seems to me that not only one and specific, but generally several pairs. Until the neighbors hung up a note saying: "Young lady, you are young and yummy, which, unfortunately, we all know already. Therefore, the request - at least close the window. The neighbors from the block" - Karolina tells us.
Has it helped? This last story is so recent that we cannot yet assess the effects of the neighbors' courageous and amusing move. However, we hope so.
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Author: Berenika Olesińska
Main photo source: Witthaya Prasongsin / Getty Images
